It’s been exactly one month today since am married. And life has its new stories to say. So many changes in life.
My home is become my mother’s home. I meet my baby (nephew) only once a week. Expected to be prim and proper when I visit at relatives, wearing sarees in 45 degree temperature,wearing loads of jewelery,preparing answers for unexpected questions and so many DO’s and Don’ts especially for a newlywed girl!
You hear funny things from people which they strongly believe and you can’t even laugh.:)I said your suppose to behave prim and proper.:)
It becomes so difficult to maintain the standards drawn by the society especially when you have just lived a vagabond life on your own standards and terms and decide everything for yourself.People expect you to behave entirely different after one day of marriage.
Marriage somewhere just curbs your FREEDOM.
But wait there are good things to it. I get up in the morning and see a face which I know will be there whenever I need or whenever I fall and I in turn will be there for him.
It’s beautiful feeling of being loved.
It feels ANCHORED!
Like a vagabond has ended its journey and now being anchored.:)
and then the early funny things really don’t matter.
They are too little to be asked for.:)
Reminds me of one of my favorite sonnets by Shakespeare:
For thy sweet love remember'd such wealth brings
That then I scorn to change my state with kings'.
Dedicated to my husband Mukul Agarwal.
Love you loads Mukul.:)
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5 comments:
:) Nice... somethings r true for guys also...
Yaa...but only some things...for the girls the list is biggggggg...!!
very nice Aarti!
I hope I am not the funny people with strong opinions, you want to laugh at! ;)
No..No...you on th eother side laughing with me..:)...!!
hi arti , u r true aaj ki naari.... india need more like u... wish u happy married life...
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